Trying to fail

by w@dmind | Jan 27, 2017 | Uncategorized

“Failing doesn’t have to mean not succeeding. It can be, ‘Hey we tried that. We can go forward, smarter.” Astro Teller

Astro Teller is a pretty smart guy. He is the Captain of Moonshots (CEO) for “X”. For those who don’t know – and I didn’t – X is the Moonshot factory for Google ( You may have heard of them.)

According to their website, this is what X is about: “This is our blueprint for X moonshots: we look for the intersection of a big problem, a radical solution, and breakthrough technology. We start with a large problem in the world that if solved could improve the lives of millions or even billions of people.”
That’s changing the lives of a lot of people. Maybe I take too many naps…

In addition to being a scientist, Teller is also a prolific writer and a serial entrepreneur. (again, the nap thing.) He’s been a pretty successful guy and I pay attention to successful people.

Here is a very interesting fact about Astro and Google and X. They try to fail.

Yep. they do everything they can to kill a project. Because the one’s that survive change the world. Self-driving cars anyone?

Teller gave a great TED talk on failure and what it means. Or probably more accurately, what it doesn’t mean.

Side Note: If you are unfamiliar with TED, you are in for a treat. TED stands for Technology Entertainment and Design. It is a nonpartisan nonprofit organization founded on the concept of spreading ideas.

Want to listen to a talk on space exploration? TED’s got it. How about philosophy, medicine, cybersecurity or magic? Whatever you are interested in, you’ll find it.

Check out TED. I promise you will spend way more time there than you thought! ( And learn a lot more too!)

Back to Astro and failure. I think we ( at least I ) spend far too much time thinking about the things that didn’t go right. How we “failed.”

But what we don’t think about it what that “failure” may have saved us. In time, in money, in aggravation. You have probably heard the saying: ” Be very careful what you want, you just might get it.” Sometime failing saves from ourselves.

Check out Teller’s short TED talk. ” The unexpected benefit of celebrating failure.” A few minutes might change your whole perspective. It changed mine.

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Good advice

by w@dmind | Jan 19, 2017 | Uncategorized

“It’s actually very easy to give people good advice. It’s very hard to follow the advice you know is good….If someone came to me with a list of problems, I would be able to sort them out very easily.” Sam Harris

There it is: The clarity of distance. I, like everyone else, get so bogged down in my own brain that I can’t see the answers clearly right in front of me.
Even worse is knowing what to do and zigging when I should be zagging. Ah, those humans!

But read on for – if not a quick fix – at least a workaround to help us avoid all those “I knew I shouldn’t have said/done that.”

Tammy Swift Is a writer for the Fargo Forum. She penned a column a while back that touched on this very thing. This is the essence of the piece:

“My friend — let’s call him Jehoshaphat — had a mother who gave him arguably the best advice ever rendered by a parental figure. She told him that whenever he struggled to make a decision, he should ask himself what a smart person would do.” You can read the entire column here.

What would a smart person do? You probably already know. But this a great way to take ourselves out the moment and try to look at the issue with fresh eyes and without the emotional component that can escalate things to the point of no return or huge regret. A word said is a word said. Some things can’t be undone.

You can even take this a bit further, just slightly modify the question and apply it to virtually any situation:

“What would a kind person say?”
“What would a brave person do?”
“What would a calm person think?”
“How would a confident person react?”
“How would a good parent respond?”

I think we are all pretty smart people. This is just a little mind hack, if you will, to let us help ourselves. Because we like us.

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Resolutions

by w@dmind | Jan 11, 2017 | Uncategorized

Yesterday, everybody smoked his last cigar, took his last drink and swore his last oath. Today, we are a pious and exemplary community. Thirty days from now, we shall have cast our reformation to the winds and gone to cutting our ancient shortcomings considerably shorter than ever.
Mark Twain

You know how this story ends: lying on the couch surrounded by empty Dorito bags and M&M crumbs. New running shoes still in the box,( price tag attached!) a mountain of laundry and a dog that hasn’t been outside so long he is desperately tunneling under the door… and it’s only January 2nd.

I’ve made the lists and the resolutions, too. I’ve taken stock of my stock and decided to make the massive changes that last…Oh, a week… or two.

So this year I am going to try to be a little easier of myself. Now, I’m still trying to be a better Dave in many many areas… and I am certain a few of you would have A LOT of advice for me, ( That goes both ways you know!)

But as James Altucher says; “Habits don’t change in a day. But 1% a day makes every habit work.

Improve a little each day. It compounds. When 1% compounds every day, it doubles every 72 days, not every 100 days. Compounding tiny excellence is what creates big excellence.” You can read the whole blog post here.

I like that math. Improving 1% a day in whatever I am trying to improve in my life sounds a lot easier than saying I am going to bench press 300 lbs, write 4 best sellers, and pay off my house by 12/31/17. And a lot more doable.

Happy New year all. And thanks for reading. Feedback welcome!
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